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day in the life | april 2015

As I mentioned before I don’t really have any interest in doing a traditional baby book for Paige, but I do love documenting daily life and how it changes. I’m doing this in a few ways during this first year of Paige’s life. Some will stick and I’ll continue to do them and others will seem less interesting over time and will be retired. The things I have going right now include a monthly “I want to remember” recap, a One Line A Day book, keeping up with my 2015 Project Life album, and a monthly Day In the Life (DITL) recap.

I had the idea for DITL long before Paige was born didn’t end up doing it during her first month. I suppose I was overwhelmed with a newborn or something. On the 15th of each month I want to take the time to take pictures and note down what we did. I think it will be fun to see how our daily life changes over the year. And by picking the 15th, I’ll get a good mix of weekdays and weekends, days when Greg is in town versus traveling, boring days at home and maybe a day with some sort of adventure.   

To make it really easy I just use my iPhone for photos and keep a note going on my phone with what we’re doing at what time. Some parts of the day are much more detailed than others, but that’s sort of how our days feel right now – moments of calm mixed with moments of chaos. 

Here’s what Wednesday, April 15th, 2015 looked like in our little world…

1:45am – Paige is up to eat and I feed her in bed. Greg then changes her diaper while I eat a protein bar. I’ve never had so many protein bars in my life.
2:20am – We’re all back to sleep until the next wake-up call.
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4:15am – Paige is up again for food and a change. I take the diaper this time as I try to let Greg get one decent block of sleep since he actually has to interact with the world each day.
4:55am – And we’re back to sleep.
6:10am – And we’re up to eat again.
6:30am – Greg’s alarm goes off for the day. He takes Paige into her room to change her, brings here back and says good-bye while he goes to shower and we head back to sleep.
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8:05am – We’re up! I run upstairs to let Alfred out (it’s sunny outside!) and then it’s “breakfast” time for Paige.
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8:45am – We move into Paige’s room to change her and get her dressed for the day.
8:50am – Paige is in a good mood, so I decide it’s a good time for me to take my shower. She sits in her bouncy chair in the bathroom with me and hangs out.
9:00am – While she’s still happy in her chair I throw in a load of laundry. She immediately becomes unhappy.
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9:05am – We head upstairs and I make myself breakfast (dinner leftovers), brew some coffee, and portion out my vitamins, supplements, and meds for the day (the list is kind of staggering right now).
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9:10am – We have play time while I eat, but someone is grumpy. I choke down my food and we try heading outside.
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9:30am – Still grumpy, so Paige goes into the Baby K’tan while I unload the dishwasher, vacuum, sort baby clothes that no longer fit her, and wipe down the kitchen & bathrooms.
10:05am – Swap the laundry and fold a load.
10:15am – Prep dinner. If I don’t do it during her morning nap, chances are it won’t get done. For tonight’s dinner I planned way too much and it took nearly an hour.
11:10am – Make a few phone calls and respond to a few emails.
11:30am – All the high priority tasks are done, so I decide to catch-up on my Project Life album.
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11:45am – Paige wakes up so we remove her from the carrier and diaper change, feed, and read a book.
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12:25pm – I put Paige in her swing so I can eat my lunch. Typically it doesn’t work, but I always try. Today happens to be a lucky day and I can eat while sitting on the floor chatting with her.
12:45pm – Load the dishwasher and get it started for what seems like the millionth time this week already.
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12:50pm – Time for our walk! I get both ‘kids’ (Alfred included) ready and we head out. We stop at the drive-thru coffee stand that has a walk-up window and I get an iced decaf. We walk out of our way to go to this place so I don’t have to bother with tying up the doodle.
1:45pm We’re back home and I turn my iced coffee into a smoothie. Only it’s horribly disgusting because I’ve added Brewer’s Yeast to help my milk supply issues. So disgusting I’m unable to drink it and very sad to have wasted my coffee.
2:00pm Time for Paige to eat again.
2:30pm Try to get Paige to nap while holding her, but she prefers to scream instead.
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2:45pm In the car to take a drive and calm down Paige. It doesn’t hurt that I can stop through the Starbucks drive-thru and replace my ruined coffee.
3:45pm Back home and Paige is asleep still so I decide to watch last week’s episode of Revenge. Yes, I’m still watching this even though it’s terrible. If you still watch Grey’s Anatomy you have no room to judge!
4:30pm Paige wakes up and we eat again.
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5:00pm And back asleep.
6:00pm Greg gets home from work just as Paige is waking up from her nap. He takes over baby duty and I throw together our prepped dinner.
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6:20pm I feed Paige while Greg fixes the new Photos app on my computer (I hate it). He eats dinner and we create a detailed task list for building a backyard veggie garden.
7:00pm We FaceTime with my brother and his family. It seems like just yesterday my niece was a tiny baby but she’s a hilarious little almost-three year old now. I eat dinner while we chat.
IMG_7482_edited-17:30pm Off on a short family walk to see if that will calm down Paige. Witching hour is real, people. Except that it should be called Witching Hours.
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7:50pm I get Paige ready for bed while Greg cleans upstairs. We try to go to bed every night with the house picked up and the kitchen clean, taking turn between getting Paige ready for bed and doing the cleaning. It makes such a difference to wake up to a nice, organized house every morning.
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8:15pm I feed Paige and read her a book then hand her off to Greg.
8:55pm Pump for ten minutes (least favorite daily “chore”).
9:30pm I get ready for bed, program the washing machine for a morning load, and fold the load from earlier today. I keep up with the laundry by scheduling a load to run at night for the next morning, and then out of sheer will moving that one load to the dry and folding it before I go to bed.
9:45pm Paige is still awake so I take over and walk around with her while Greg gets ready for bed.
10:00pm I try rocking Paige and she is drowsy but won’t commit to sleep.
10:15pm Bring out the big guns (less than big boobs in this case) and finally get her to sleep. Mumble good night to Greg and we both pass out, hoping to get a few hours before the little tyrant rouses us.

newborn photos

We invited our photographer, Sara, over to our house to capture our family in our own environment. Despite the fact that Paige cried almost the entire time (her first ever fussy period, of course), I love that we have these sweet photos with her at a week old.

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newborn6Love these pictures of the three of us together.
newborn1 And these with the fourth member of the family. I know this session was about Paige, but I’m loving the one of Alfred on the left. I have no idea how Sara got him to smile and hold still but it’s awesome. newborn2We have a handful with Paige and Greg or me. It will be fun years down the road to look back at the details, like my glasses or Greg’s graphic tees. 

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Love that Sara captured details of our home, as well. Paige has actually only ever slept in her crib once for a nap, but it’s much cuter than the bassinet in our room.
newborn5newborn7 newborn8And I absolutely love all these pictures of Paige by herself. The different faces, the toes, the tiny fingers that she always manages to interlace. Soon enough she’ll be making different faces and we’ll be excited over new skills. I doubt we’ll take family photos that often, but I’m happy we have these.

 

what I want to remember|month one

Paige turned one month old on Saturday, March 28th. It was honestly the fastest four weeks of my life (with some of the slowest hours of my life thrown in the mix). I don’t have plans for a traditional baby book for Paige and instead am documenting her daily life and milestones in a few different ways.

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I want to remember how magical the first two weeks at home felt. Dad took them off work and the three of us relaxed at home and adjusted to our life as a little family. They were days with nothing on the agenda but spending time together.

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I want to remember watching your dad be in awe of how precious you are. That will always, always stick with me.

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I wan to remember that we became ladies (and a dad) who lunch. You are so easy during the day and we enjoyed getting out of the house. Of course your first restaurant was family Mexican. Did you think it would be anything else?

I want to remember the feeling of victory when you ended the month weighing 7lbs 4oz; we worked so damn hard to get you those 5 ounces above your birth weight. It’s been a challenge, but we’re going to make it. I’m sorry about those two weeks you weren’t getting enough food, we had no idea. We’re all happy that you are happy and full now and we’ll do what it takes to keep you that way.

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I want to remember introducing you to your big brother. He is slowly accepting that you are here for good. He is very interested in smelling you and checking you out, but on his terms only for now. He does not appreciate it when we bring you close to him. I know down the road you two will be best buddies. We can’t wait to hear how you say his name when you’re first learning to talk.

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I want to remember all your family visitors. Grandma Debbie came for a few days from Colorado to help us get on our feet. You also had lots of visits from Grandma Berta. I’m glad that you’ll grow up with at least one grandparent near by. That’s something I never really had and I know it will be special for you. You are one very loved little girl, with all these visitors. Grandpa Ken and Grandma Cathy left spring in Palm Springs to come visit and even Uncle Mike and Aunt (!) Kelly flew out from NYC.

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I want to remember that you love the car (as long as we’re moving) and bath time, which is awesome. You don’t mind tummy time and will lift your neck a little then get frustrated if we don’t pick you up after.

I want to remember that you love music like your dad. I’m so glad of that, it’s always been weird being the person who doesn’t really care for music. Our house has had much more background noise this past month than every before. I’m learning to deal with it.

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I want to remember all your nicknames, as I’m sure only a few will stick in the long run. We call you peanut (you’re tiny), pickle (you look like one in your green nightgown), and glow worm (your parents are children of the eighties and you totally look like one in your swaddle blanket).

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I want to remember my favorite outfit for you this month. I put you in it every time it was clean. Your #gingertwin Ruby is letting you borrow all her clothes, which is the only reason you always look cute. Also, you love your changing pad for some reason. If we ever can’t calm you down, we change your diaper and let you relax for a bit, works like a charm.

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I want to remember sitting in your room, reading you books. It is a surreal feeling. I’ve thought about this moment for years and now it’s here and so much more perfect because it’s with you.

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I want to remember how alert you are now during your awake times. Most of the time you are pretty content to stare off into space. You will always win a staring contest with dad or me. I don’t know what newborn super power allows you to not blink, but it’s impressive. You love to be held by me or dad and aren’t a big fan of being put down when you’re awake. We’re learning how to do everything one handed.

I love you, Pickle. Let’s have an awesome month two.